In proverbs 4:23, we are told we should guard our hearts because it is the wellspring of life. According to dictionary.com, a wellspring is "the original and bountiful source of something."
In Philipians 4:7, we are told "the peace of God will guard your heart and minds."
What is the difference between guarding our hearts or minds? How do we know when we are guarding our heart or our mind? It seems that our hearts are where our dreams, desires, motivations and zeal for life are kept. Our hearts are the driving force behind what we do, what we say, where we go and how we relate with one another. To guard our heart would mean not to get discouraged, but to feed our hearts with God sized thoughts and actions. Verses that are "heart healthy" are, "For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 and "For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self discipline." 2 Timothy 1:7 What are some examples of spiritual junk food that may be harmful to our hearts?
To guard our minds seems similar to guarding our hearts. Some may suggest guarding our heart and our mind would be guarding the same entity. Psalm 119:11 states "I have hidden your word in my heart so that I might not sin against God." At first glance, I thought this verse was referring to the memorization of scripture causing one to believe the mind/heart is where this type of activity occurs. However, taking a second glance, I realize the word has already been memorized...it is being stored in the heart. Luke 10:27 states to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind." The mind and heart are written as separate entitities in scripture which means they have different spiritual purposes.
If the mind is a separate entity from the spiritual heart, I would imagine the mind represents the analytical and data gathering/remembering aspects of our existence. It is with our minds that we work out problems, make decisions on the best options depending upon what makes most sense, memorize information and contemplate our being. With our mind, we memorize His word and then we feed those thoughts to our hearts.
To guard our minds would mean to focus on the truth. I believe to love the Lord with all our mind means to work toward learning and growing our thought processess as much as possible. If we guard our mind, we keep "spam" from getting through our mental filters. We fill our minds with powerful information that leads us to greater understanding.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Friday, December 30, 2011
Open Our Eyes
Dear Father,
In your word, you gave us examples of people who were lost and scared. Your words states you opened their eyes. Balaam was confused and heading down the wrong road. You opened his eyes to see an angel. Elisha's servant was afraid. You opened his eyes and he saw chariots of fire all around protecting them from the invading forces. Open our eyes. Help us see where you want us to go. Help us see what you want us to do. Remove our blinders. Help us not to be nearsighted and help us not to be farsighted. Help us see your chariots of fire surrounding us. We don't want to miss out on one second of your power and what you can do in our lives.
Balaam's eyes were opened to see an angel on the donkey. Numbers 22:31
Don't be afraid," the prophet answered. "Those who are with us are more than those who are with them." And Elisha prayed, "O LORD, open his eyes so he may see." Then the LORD opened the servant's eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha. 2 Kings 6:16-17
In your word, you gave us examples of people who were lost and scared. Your words states you opened their eyes. Balaam was confused and heading down the wrong road. You opened his eyes to see an angel. Elisha's servant was afraid. You opened his eyes and he saw chariots of fire all around protecting them from the invading forces. Open our eyes. Help us see where you want us to go. Help us see what you want us to do. Remove our blinders. Help us not to be nearsighted and help us not to be farsighted. Help us see your chariots of fire surrounding us. We don't want to miss out on one second of your power and what you can do in our lives.
Balaam's eyes were opened to see an angel on the donkey. Numbers 22:31
Don't be afraid," the prophet answered. "Those who are with us are more than those who are with them." And Elisha prayed, "O LORD, open his eyes so he may see." Then the LORD opened the servant's eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha. 2 Kings 6:16-17
Thursday, December 29, 2011
My prayer
Dear Father,
Thank you for your spirit; your spirit who does not make us timid or weak, but gives us power, love and self discipline. Thank you for giving us power through your spirit; the same spirit who made the blind see, the paralyzed walk, brought the dead back to life and made man be able to walk on water.
Everything we have here on earth is yours. This earth is your kingdom. Thank you for loving us and being in control of everything. Father, how did you create the sun? How do you make the moon glow year after year after year? How do you make trees grow every season? How do you make the heart beat over and over? How do our inner ears sense movement for many many years?
Help us humble ourselves so that you will lift us up. We pray for more of your strength and less of our strength. More of your thoughts and less of our thoughts. More of your words spoken and less of our words spoken.
For if you can part the red sea, you can open our minds to move us to do your will. If you can help men walk through a fiery furnace unharmed, you can guide us through difficult circumstances in life and bring honor to your name in the process. If you can make an axe head float, then you can give us strength to carry burdens. If you can make a donkey speak, you can help us communicate in love. If you can close the mouths of lions to not eat Daniel in the lions den, you can help us keep our mouths shut. If you can bring down a giant with a stone, you can help us take down the habits in our lives that are not bringing us closer to you by making new habits.
Open our eyes father. Help us see your chariots of fire. Keep blinders off our eyes. Help us see where you want us to go. Give us more of your spirit. Please give us a double and triple dose of your spirit. Holy spirit, provide us with the clarity to know what you want us to do and the courage to do it. Provide us with an irresistible urge to act on your behalf.
Amen.
Thank you for your spirit; your spirit who does not make us timid or weak, but gives us power, love and self discipline. Thank you for giving us power through your spirit; the same spirit who made the blind see, the paralyzed walk, brought the dead back to life and made man be able to walk on water.
Everything we have here on earth is yours. This earth is your kingdom. Thank you for loving us and being in control of everything. Father, how did you create the sun? How do you make the moon glow year after year after year? How do you make trees grow every season? How do you make the heart beat over and over? How do our inner ears sense movement for many many years?
Help us humble ourselves so that you will lift us up. We pray for more of your strength and less of our strength. More of your thoughts and less of our thoughts. More of your words spoken and less of our words spoken.
For if you can part the red sea, you can open our minds to move us to do your will. If you can help men walk through a fiery furnace unharmed, you can guide us through difficult circumstances in life and bring honor to your name in the process. If you can make an axe head float, then you can give us strength to carry burdens. If you can make a donkey speak, you can help us communicate in love. If you can close the mouths of lions to not eat Daniel in the lions den, you can help us keep our mouths shut. If you can bring down a giant with a stone, you can help us take down the habits in our lives that are not bringing us closer to you by making new habits.
Open our eyes father. Help us see your chariots of fire. Keep blinders off our eyes. Help us see where you want us to go. Give us more of your spirit. Please give us a double and triple dose of your spirit. Holy spirit, provide us with the clarity to know what you want us to do and the courage to do it. Provide us with an irresistible urge to act on your behalf.
Amen.
Friday, December 23, 2011
When Will Power Defeat Our Habits?
"I just can't do it captain...I don't have the power," stated Scotty from Star Trek. Scotty was right, we don't have the power. If I can't, we know He can. If we can't defeat our habits with our power, I believe the Spirit's power can help us create new habits. If the spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self discipline, I believe He can help us make new habits (2 Tim 1:7). If it's not by might nor by power, but by your spirit, I believe the Spirit can help us create new habits (Zech 4:6). If we are not to conform any longer to the patterns of this world, which are the habits that we all get into, but be transformed by the renewing of our minds, I believe God's spirit can help us make new habits (Rom 12:2).
Monday, December 12, 2011
"Your habits will always defeat your willpower." John Ortberg
It doesn't seem like it takes long to create a habit, but it does seem like it takes a while to break a habit. It seems as though our bodies have a predisposition toward making habits easily. Have you ever noticed how a certain routine, once practiced a few times, becomes difficult to give up? For me, running has become a habit. One would think that would be something that an individual should have an easy time giving up. However, if I don't run, I feel as though I haven't brushed my teeth. I feel dirty, sick, unhealthy and defeated.
A recent habit that has been changed for me is the location of our file cabinet at work. For eight years, our file cabinet was always in the same place. Now it has been changed to a new location. I was used to always walking a certain direction and getting what I needed. It has taken me about a week to stop walking toward the old location to where the file cabinet was held.
The following is a segmental transcript of John Ortberg in the Podcast: "All In: Healing...All My Soul" 11-15-2011 Menlo Park Presbyterian Church
http://www.mppc.org/series/all/john-ortberg/healing-all-my-soul#.TuK2zrqRpaw.facebook
"Habits are deeply entrenched patterns way below the surface...insidious, like a disease, that just leak out when I'm not even trying. Self serving words or tones, the way I cater to someone important, attractive or wealthy when I don't even like that in me. I don't know how to turn it off. I don't know how to shut it down. I do not understand what I do. For what I want, I do not do. What I hate, I do. I have desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. John states, "habits are relatively permanent pattern of behavior that allows you to navigate the world. Our capacity for habitual behavior is indispensible for human life. Habits are enormously freeing. They become as natural as breathing. You are mostly a collection of habits. Without understanding this, spiritual life can be a source of enormous frustration and defeat."
"When sin gets into the way we think, and want, and desire, and perceive, and feel, and choose, and walk, and speak, and act, and behave, and relate, when sin gets into our habits it is a trajedy of unspeakable proportions."
"A habit is a behavior pattern so engrained that we don't have to think about it and it becomes as natural as breathing. They become second nature."
"When Paul talks about nothing good in my sinful nature, he is not talking about one ghost fighting it out with another ghost some place. Sin, evil, wickedness, deception, anger, Racism, greed, ingratitude, pride have become second nature to us all. You can overcome a habit with willpower for a moment or two, but over the long hall your habits will always defeat your willpower.
Surender to your will. Die to yourself and your wants and ways. Arrange yourself in a way where you can aquire new habits. Study scriptures together. Pray together. Give, serve, confess, replace sinful habits with Jesus habits. Do not let sin reign in your body so that you obey it's evil desires...do not offer the parts of your body to sin as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God. Enter into a new way. The way of Jesus so that you can be given by God the freedom from sin that your will can never give you. Offer the members of your body. Offer your mind to read scripture so you can think of different thoughts of love and joy and peace. Offer your hands to practice giving so you can be freed from habitual greed, offer your feet to go somewhere and serve in places where you see there are human beings that have bigger problems than I do. Offer your lips to practice gratitude or silence so you discover it's possible to live without complaining...so that gets into my body. Offer your ears to listen to God so that you get new habits. Jesus was a collection of habits. Jesus was a new way."
"Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right whatever is pure, whatever is right, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about these things." Phil 4:8
A recent habit that has been changed for me is the location of our file cabinet at work. For eight years, our file cabinet was always in the same place. Now it has been changed to a new location. I was used to always walking a certain direction and getting what I needed. It has taken me about a week to stop walking toward the old location to where the file cabinet was held.
The following is a segmental transcript of John Ortberg in the Podcast: "All In: Healing...All My Soul" 11-15-2011 Menlo Park Presbyterian Church
http://www.mppc.org/series/all/john-ortberg/healing-all-my-soul#.TuK2zrqRpaw.facebook
"Habits are deeply entrenched patterns way below the surface...insidious, like a disease, that just leak out when I'm not even trying. Self serving words or tones, the way I cater to someone important, attractive or wealthy when I don't even like that in me. I don't know how to turn it off. I don't know how to shut it down. I do not understand what I do. For what I want, I do not do. What I hate, I do. I have desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. John states, "habits are relatively permanent pattern of behavior that allows you to navigate the world. Our capacity for habitual behavior is indispensible for human life. Habits are enormously freeing. They become as natural as breathing. You are mostly a collection of habits. Without understanding this, spiritual life can be a source of enormous frustration and defeat."
"When sin gets into the way we think, and want, and desire, and perceive, and feel, and choose, and walk, and speak, and act, and behave, and relate, when sin gets into our habits it is a trajedy of unspeakable proportions."
"A habit is a behavior pattern so engrained that we don't have to think about it and it becomes as natural as breathing. They become second nature."
"When Paul talks about nothing good in my sinful nature, he is not talking about one ghost fighting it out with another ghost some place. Sin, evil, wickedness, deception, anger, Racism, greed, ingratitude, pride have become second nature to us all. You can overcome a habit with willpower for a moment or two, but over the long hall your habits will always defeat your willpower.
Surender to your will. Die to yourself and your wants and ways. Arrange yourself in a way where you can aquire new habits. Study scriptures together. Pray together. Give, serve, confess, replace sinful habits with Jesus habits. Do not let sin reign in your body so that you obey it's evil desires...do not offer the parts of your body to sin as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God. Enter into a new way. The way of Jesus so that you can be given by God the freedom from sin that your will can never give you. Offer the members of your body. Offer your mind to read scripture so you can think of different thoughts of love and joy and peace. Offer your hands to practice giving so you can be freed from habitual greed, offer your feet to go somewhere and serve in places where you see there are human beings that have bigger problems than I do. Offer your lips to practice gratitude or silence so you discover it's possible to live without complaining...so that gets into my body. Offer your ears to listen to God so that you get new habits. Jesus was a collection of habits. Jesus was a new way."
"Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right whatever is pure, whatever is right, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about these things." Phil 4:8
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Are habits helpful or harmful?
I think that depends upon the habit. Some habits are helpful. Examples of helpful habits include our ability to tie our shoes without thought, brush our teeth properly with ease, get dressed, type messages, use a spoon, exercise, etc.
Harmful habits may include mindless web surfing, too much time reading useless information and eating too much or the wrong types of foods.
According to John Ortberg in the Podcast: http://www.mppc.org/series/all/john-ortberg/healing-all-my-soul habits cannot be overcome by willpower, but only by creating new habits.
Harmful habits may include mindless web surfing, too much time reading useless information and eating too much or the wrong types of foods.
According to John Ortberg in the Podcast: http://www.mppc.org/series/all/john-ortberg/healing-all-my-soul habits cannot be overcome by willpower, but only by creating new habits.
Habits: What Are They?
What is a habit? Thefreedictionary.com defines a habit as "A recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through
frequent repetition." It also states a habit is an addiction. I find the unconscious part of the definition interesting because I see people using their unconscious systems all the time to move from one place to the next.
When we stand up to go outside we don't have to think about how to move. No one pauses to contemplate exactly how they are going to stand to move unless they have a problem moving. Once we learn how to walk, we do it so much that it becomes unconscious...just like habits.
We don't have to stop to think about things like tying our shoes, brushing our teeth, preparing our breakfast or taking a shower. The only reason we have to pause to give thought to these activities is if something has changed that would render our habit no longer helpful.
We have habits that help us complete tasks, but what about habits that help us communicate with one another and ourselves? How do habits impact the way we think? How do habits impact the way we feel about ourselves and those around us?
When it comes to growing, making progress, getting stronger, building emotional, mental, spiritual and physical health, I believe we need to pause to look at the habits we are currently relying upon to survive. We also need to be mindful regarding the new habits we form.
When we stand up to go outside we don't have to think about how to move. No one pauses to contemplate exactly how they are going to stand to move unless they have a problem moving. Once we learn how to walk, we do it so much that it becomes unconscious...just like habits.
We don't have to stop to think about things like tying our shoes, brushing our teeth, preparing our breakfast or taking a shower. The only reason we have to pause to give thought to these activities is if something has changed that would render our habit no longer helpful.
We have habits that help us complete tasks, but what about habits that help us communicate with one another and ourselves? How do habits impact the way we think? How do habits impact the way we feel about ourselves and those around us?
When it comes to growing, making progress, getting stronger, building emotional, mental, spiritual and physical health, I believe we need to pause to look at the habits we are currently relying upon to survive. We also need to be mindful regarding the new habits we form.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
A Collection of Habits and Conditioned Reflexes
Are we mostly a collection of habits and conditioned reflexes?
Thoughts lead to behaviors which lead to habits which help in forming conditioned reflexes.
Thoughts lead to behaviors which lead to habits which help in forming conditioned reflexes.
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Eagles Wings
Have you ever had a moment in your life when you were able to totally let go of your situation and let God take over? Do you remember what that felt like? I sometimes imagine those moments as though I am flying like an eagle. Exodus 19:4 states "You have seen what I did to Egypt and how I carried you on eagles' wings and brought you to me." Isaiah 40:31 states, "but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
"Life is a journey that is not about
a destination, but a transformation." (Character in the movie To Save a Life) I love this quote. One of my favorite scriptures is, "Do not conform any longer to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is- His good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2) I have also heard John Maxwell comment about the process being more important than the event.
Sunday, November 27, 2011
The Heart
Andy Stanley has a great podcast series called, "It Came From Within." The following are questions he states he asks his kids before they go to bed to check on the condition of their hearts:
Guard your heart. Your heart is your wellspring of life. You lead from your heart. You speak from your heart. You act from your heart. From your heart come your thoughts. We have to be aware of what goes into our hearts and out of our hearts.
- Is everything ok in your heart?
- Has anyone hurt you today?
- Has anyone broken a promise to you today?
- Has anyone upset you today?
Guard your heart. Your heart is your wellspring of life. You lead from your heart. You speak from your heart. You act from your heart. From your heart come your thoughts. We have to be aware of what goes into our hearts and out of our hearts.
Matthew 12:34 New Living Translation (NLT)
34 You brood of snakes! How could evil men like you speak what is good and right? For whatever is in your heart determines what you say.
Mark 7:20 (NLT)
20 And then he added, “It is what comes from inside that defiles you. 21 For from within, out of a person’s heart, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, 22 adultery, greed, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness. 23 All these vile things come from within; they are what defile you.”
Proverbs 14:30 New International Version (NIV)
30 A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.
Proverbs 4:23 New International Version (NIV)
23 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Sharing our dreams (aspirations) part II
As I think more about it, I don't believe it would have mattered whether or not Joseph had shared his dream with his family at such a young age. It seems God had a plan for Joseph's life. It's hard to understand how God's plan may have worked in Joseph's life without his brothers selling him into slavery. It would be interesting to have had two identical Josephs with two identical families. Have one Joseph share his dream with his family and the other Joseph practice verbal discipline. Would the same outcome have occurred twenty years later?
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Putting the fun back into dysfunctional
Dysfunction is real. Most of us experience dysfunction in our lives in one way or another. Sometimes we are the cause of dysfunction. Sometimes we are born into dysfunction. Sometimes our circumstances put us in the middle of dysfunction and sometimes dysfunction may seem to follow us around wherever we go.
I am currently reading the Message translation of Genesis 1-42 and can't believe all the crazy, whacked out dysfunction that goes on. The Message translation puts the stories into modern day terminology and helps me more easily relate to the stories being told. The assuring and beautiful part of it all is that God hangs in there and pursues his people in spite of their dysfunction. The assuring part about reading through Genesis 1-42 is seeing how God worked through all of the "craziness" and continued to work toward reconciliation with His people.
It helps me to remember God understands dysfunction. He loves us anyway and wants to help us "be transformed" (Romans 12) as we work through the dysfunction within and around us. Someone once said, "God loves us the way we are, but he loves us too much to leave us that way." He is still working on me. He is still working on you. Stay joyful. Trust God. Lets put the "fun" back into dysfunctional and kick dysfunction's rear end!
Disclaimer: I read "Let's put the fun back into dysfunctional" on a magnet stuck to a refrigerator one day. I do not know who first thought of that phrase and published it.
I am currently reading the Message translation of Genesis 1-42 and can't believe all the crazy, whacked out dysfunction that goes on. The Message translation puts the stories into modern day terminology and helps me more easily relate to the stories being told. The assuring and beautiful part of it all is that God hangs in there and pursues his people in spite of their dysfunction. The assuring part about reading through Genesis 1-42 is seeing how God worked through all of the "craziness" and continued to work toward reconciliation with His people.
It helps me to remember God understands dysfunction. He loves us anyway and wants to help us "be transformed" (Romans 12) as we work through the dysfunction within and around us. Someone once said, "God loves us the way we are, but he loves us too much to leave us that way." He is still working on me. He is still working on you. Stay joyful. Trust God. Lets put the "fun" back into dysfunctional and kick dysfunction's rear end!
Disclaimer: I read "Let's put the fun back into dysfunctional" on a magnet stuck to a refrigerator one day. I do not know who first thought of that phrase and published it.
Friday, November 18, 2011
Sharing our dreams (aspirations) at the
right time with the right people is a prudent way of living. Sharing our dreams at the wrong time with the wrong people may put a delay in seeing our dreams come to pass.
I can't believe all of the dysfunction from Genesis 1-37. Joseph's brothers decided to sell Joseph to another tribe because they were jealous of Joseph. Joseph shared a dream that he had with his brothers. His dream was that he would rule over his brothers some day. I think this would have been a dream that would have been better had it been kept to himself. I can't blame Joseph. Of all the people to share your deepest hopes, desires and visions, one would think the family would be the safest place to do so.
Now, if Joseph had shared a dream with his brothers that involved his brothers ruling over him, I have a feeling his brothers would not have minded hearing about his dreams. If I put myself in Joseph's shoes, here is what I would have been thinking: "Wow, I think I just heard from God and God told me what our future would be like! This is so exciting. I bet my brothers are going to be happy to hear this and so happy for our family." Perhaps my excitement about hearing from God and the future of our family may have now allowed me to consider the entire implications of this dream. Regardless of how good it sounded for me, all my brothers are going to hear is that they will be ruled by me!
I can't believe all of the dysfunction from Genesis 1-37. Joseph's brothers decided to sell Joseph to another tribe because they were jealous of Joseph. Joseph shared a dream that he had with his brothers. His dream was that he would rule over his brothers some day. I think this would have been a dream that would have been better had it been kept to himself. I can't blame Joseph. Of all the people to share your deepest hopes, desires and visions, one would think the family would be the safest place to do so.
Now, if Joseph had shared a dream with his brothers that involved his brothers ruling over him, I have a feeling his brothers would not have minded hearing about his dreams. If I put myself in Joseph's shoes, here is what I would have been thinking: "Wow, I think I just heard from God and God told me what our future would be like! This is so exciting. I bet my brothers are going to be happy to hear this and so happy for our family." Perhaps my excitement about hearing from God and the future of our family may have now allowed me to consider the entire implications of this dream. Regardless of how good it sounded for me, all my brothers are going to hear is that they will be ruled by me!
Thursday, November 17, 2011
One of the best ways I have learned to relax
is by reading through the bible from beginning to end. The only way I have been disciplined enough to stick with it is through the use of reading plans on my ipod. In my opinion, the bible is a fascinating collection of books that allows me to better understand our Creator. Shifting my focus from how I can better control my circumstances to how God is in control of our circumstances is very humbling and liberating.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
"A man of fear lives always on the edge
of insanity. A man of faith lives in perpetual reward," states Andy Andrews in The Travelors Gift. As a physical therapist, I work with people who are battling one of the most terrifying events that can occur in a person's life. This event that I am referring to leaves individuals with a feeling of helplessness and isolation. They believe there is no hope and it causes many to be afraid to go to bed at night, walk to the restroom or go to the grocery store. One person may have said it best, "Dizziness is the hardest thing on a persons nerves..."
I never imagined I would be a person who helps clients with dizziness. I have learned so much by working with clients who battle this problem. One of the biggest lessons I have learned is how important it is to not allow fear to drive or control us. Once fear gets hold of our lives, it makes everything worse. The crazy part about this lesson, is that if anyone has the right to be afraid, it is a person battling a vestibular disorder.
Vestibular disorders can oftentimes be unpredictable in how they impact people's lives. They can come on with no warning and with no pattern in intensity. People often say, "Am I going to have to live with this the rest of my life?" Faith that this is only a moment in their life and not their life is needed to build hope in their future.
I never imagined I would be a person who helps clients with dizziness. I have learned so much by working with clients who battle this problem. One of the biggest lessons I have learned is how important it is to not allow fear to drive or control us. Once fear gets hold of our lives, it makes everything worse. The crazy part about this lesson, is that if anyone has the right to be afraid, it is a person battling a vestibular disorder.
Vestibular disorders can oftentimes be unpredictable in how they impact people's lives. They can come on with no warning and with no pattern in intensity. People often say, "Am I going to have to live with this the rest of my life?" Faith that this is only a moment in their life and not their life is needed to build hope in their future.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Anger keeps leaders
from growing. Anger robs us of our leadership potential. Andy Stanley has a great leadership Podcast series on "Enemies of the Heart." He states that leaders who have internal problems eventually are held back because internal problems eventually express themselves externally. He states the condition of our heart becomes an invisible lid to our leadership (John Maxwell's Law of the Lid).
In his podcast on anger, he states anger states "you owe me." Anger causes us to expect pay back. He states angry leaders fix blame on individuals rather than systems. However, nine times out of ten a system is to blame. Being angry puts us in "pay back mode." Anger causes us to believe that "you took something from me."
He states angry people have very little emotional margin and that they tend to blame people. The way to get over anger is to release others from their debt to you. I must decide, "you don't owe me anymore." This does not mean they weren't wrong or that they didn't owe me. It just means I am deciding to forgive them of the debt they owe.
Forgiveness breaks the power of anger. Andy states, "We don't like to lose" and when we decide others don't owe us anymore, we feel we are giving something up. Anger gives us a sense of power over others. When we decide they don't owe us, we feel as though we are giving up power over them. We do not like to lose and we don't like to give up power. When we decide we are going to forgive others, we feel like we have lost. However, in reality it is a big win as forgiveness creates emotional margin. Thanks Andy Stanley for these thoughts!
In his podcast on anger, he states anger states "you owe me." Anger causes us to expect pay back. He states angry leaders fix blame on individuals rather than systems. However, nine times out of ten a system is to blame. Being angry puts us in "pay back mode." Anger causes us to believe that "you took something from me."
He states angry people have very little emotional margin and that they tend to blame people. The way to get over anger is to release others from their debt to you. I must decide, "you don't owe me anymore." This does not mean they weren't wrong or that they didn't owe me. It just means I am deciding to forgive them of the debt they owe.
Forgiveness breaks the power of anger. Andy states, "We don't like to lose" and when we decide others don't owe us anymore, we feel we are giving something up. Anger gives us a sense of power over others. When we decide they don't owe us, we feel as though we are giving up power over them. We do not like to lose and we don't like to give up power. When we decide we are going to forgive others, we feel like we have lost. However, in reality it is a big win as forgiveness creates emotional margin. Thanks Andy Stanley for these thoughts!
Monday, October 24, 2011
"Life begins where your comfort zone
ends!" My cousin just shared this statement with me on facebook and I believe it to be true. I remember our campus minister in college sharing that we needed to be uncomfortable with our comfortableness.
I know as a physical therapist, the only way to build a muscle up is to make it do what it is not comfortable doing. So, plow ahead! Go against the flow! We only live once.
I know as a physical therapist, the only way to build a muscle up is to make it do what it is not comfortable doing. So, plow ahead! Go against the flow! We only live once.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
The Consistency Muscle
"The signature of mediocrity, is chronic inconsistency." Jim Collins made this comment at the recent Catalyst convention in Atlanta, Georgia. Consistency can be difficult, but it is more difficult if we haven't worked at being consistent on a consistent basis. In other words, I think there is a consistency muscle. The more we work at being consistent, the more easy it is to be consistent. As we grow, consistency in tougher situations is much more likely.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Pin your ears back
and go. I remember my high school football coach telling me that during pre-game warm ups. The idea was that you just go for it. Don't hold back. Don't let fear keep you from accomplishing what you have prepared to accomplish. Take everything you have done to prepare over the last several months, let go, have fun and go baby!
I think that in life we need to pin our ears back and go. Life is too short to miss out on great experiences and opportunities because of being timid or lazy. We gotta live while we can.
I think that in life we need to pin our ears back and go. Life is too short to miss out on great experiences and opportunities because of being timid or lazy. We gotta live while we can.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Deportation?
I don't think I knew what this word really meant until a little over two years ago. One of the most meaningful journeys of our lives took a detour...yes, we were deported from another country. It's sad to say that we didn't catch the date error on our Visas prior to traveling half way around the world...
I learned so many valuable lessons from that experience, but one of the most important lessons I learned is DON'T EVER GIVE UP! If you believe that there is something you are meant to do, then do whatever it takes to get the job done. Don't give up. Don't waver. Keep fighting. Keep trying. Stay focused. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7)
So glad we GOTCHA!
I learned so many valuable lessons from that experience, but one of the most important lessons I learned is DON'T EVER GIVE UP! If you believe that there is something you are meant to do, then do whatever it takes to get the job done. Don't give up. Don't waver. Keep fighting. Keep trying. Stay focused. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7)
So glad we GOTCHA!
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Sunday, September 11, 2011
9-11 and emotional stewardship
I can't believe it has been 10 years since 9-11. My heart is heavy with sadness for all the families who lost loved ones and for those who endured the terror of that day. I am amazed by the stories of the individuals who sacrificed their lives to save others. In such times of fear and terror, those individuals demonstrated an outstanding ability to keep their emotions in control.
A buddy of mine posted a note about emotional maturity on his facebook page. It was very interesting and it made me think about individuals who are able to control their emotions in tough times. It made realize that these individuals are really good stewards of their emotions. They use their emotional energy wisely.
A buddy of mine posted a note about emotional maturity on his facebook page. It was very interesting and it made me think about individuals who are able to control their emotions in tough times. It made realize that these individuals are really good stewards of their emotions. They use their emotional energy wisely.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Clarity, courage and an irrisistible urge to act
We prayed for these three attributes several years ago. The result was that we were led into one of the best adventures and activities of our lives. Thanks Andy Stanley for talking about this in your "Heroes" Podcast series.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
The Greater the Problem...
the greater the opportunity for a miracle. When it seems like there is no way out, no solution, no hope... hang on! Never quit. Our creator is not limited by things that limit us.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Faith and Fear
Both faith and fear are a belief in something that one cannot see or touch. They are similar in that they represent responses of something that is about to happen. Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. Fear is an emotional response to a known or definite threat.
Both represent extreme confidence in an event that may or may not come to pass. Both could change physical responses in our bodies in different ways. Faith causes peace and fear causes fight or flight.
http://panicdisorder.about.com/od/understandingpanic/a/fearandanxiety.htm
Hebrews 11:1
Both represent extreme confidence in an event that may or may not come to pass. Both could change physical responses in our bodies in different ways. Faith causes peace and fear causes fight or flight.
http://panicdisorder.about.com/od/understandingpanic/a/fearandanxiety.htm
Hebrews 11:1
Friday, August 12, 2011
"Perhaps the Lord will act on our behalf."
What is the biggest risk you have ever taken? How much planning/preparation did you do? Have you ever taken a big chance hoping that somehow something or someone would intervene?
Two years ago, we were a few days away from beginning one of the most valuable and exciting adventures of our lives. One of our theme sayings was, "Perhaps the Lord will act on our behalf." This was Jonathan's prayer when he prepared to take on the Philistines with his armor bearer. (1 Samuel 14:6)
God sized adventures will only be a success with God's help. It is with this type of risky living where we feel most vulnerable. Because we feel vulnerable, our faith and confidence that God is with us is the fuel we can use to drive us forward. Our goal was to adopt a child from Kazakhstan. We new nothing about the child we would adopt, but believed there was a child over there who we were meant to parent.
Two years ago, we were a few days away from beginning one of the most valuable and exciting adventures of our lives. One of our theme sayings was, "Perhaps the Lord will act on our behalf." This was Jonathan's prayer when he prepared to take on the Philistines with his armor bearer. (1 Samuel 14:6)
God sized adventures will only be a success with God's help. It is with this type of risky living where we feel most vulnerable. Because we feel vulnerable, our faith and confidence that God is with us is the fuel we can use to drive us forward. Our goal was to adopt a child from Kazakhstan. We new nothing about the child we would adopt, but believed there was a child over there who we were meant to parent.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Immeasurably more!
Ephesians 3:20-21
20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Self Fulfilling Prophecy
I recently met with a colleague. We were discussing trends in our profession and he reminded me to be careful of how I forecasted the future based upon prior experiences. He insinuated that the way I was speaking could bring about a self fulfilling prophecy. His willingness to be direct and honest caused me to pause and think more about the way I speak. Was I being negative in my thinking or speaking facts?
Either way, I believe the key is to speak the truth with hope for the future. When individuals are sick, we want to believe they will be healed. When people lose their jobs, we want to believe they will get new and better ones. When people want to become famous baseball players, movie stars and writers, it is important to do our best to encourage our friends and loved ones, yet we also have to be mindful of the truth. Self efficacy drives our performance and our futures. I would hate to miss out on becoming who God wants me and my family to become because of my failure to believe in the plans God may have to provide a bright future full of hope.
Either way, I believe the key is to speak the truth with hope for the future. When individuals are sick, we want to believe they will be healed. When people lose their jobs, we want to believe they will get new and better ones. When people want to become famous baseball players, movie stars and writers, it is important to do our best to encourage our friends and loved ones, yet we also have to be mindful of the truth. Self efficacy drives our performance and our futures. I would hate to miss out on becoming who God wants me and my family to become because of my failure to believe in the plans God may have to provide a bright future full of hope.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Accumulating possessions or experiences?
I am listening to one of my favorite podcast series, "Chase the Lion" by Mark Batterson. He asked the question: "Are you trying to accumulate experiences or possessions?" He stated that in an effort to be safe and secure and minimize uncertainty, we often try to accumulate possessions instead of experiences. When I look back over the last several years, I am very thankful for the time I spent embracing new experiences.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
What is the definition of perseverance?
According to thefreedictionary.com:
Persevere
To persist in or remain constant to a purpose, idea, or task in the face of obstacles or discouragement.
Perseverance
Steady persistence in adhering to a course of action, a belief, or a purpose; steadfastness.
Saturday, July 30, 2011
What is the definition of endurance?
According to thefreedictionary.com
3. Continuing existence; duration.
1. The act, quality, or power of withstanding hardship or stress: A marathon tests a runner's endurance.
2. The state or fact of persevering: Through hard work and endurance, we will complete this project.3. Continuing existence; duration.
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Pursue endurance: you may live to be 100
My 100 year old friend knows what it means to pursue endurance. Physical, emotional, spiritual and social challenges continue to change as we mature. Endurance in all these aspects makes a big difference when it comes to staying joyful with life's ups and downs.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Pursue gentleness: Power under control
I am ashamed to say that, out of all the things in life I am trying to pursue, gentleness has not been on the top of my list. I don't believe I have thought of gentleness as something to chase after. However, 1 Timothy 6:11 encourages us to pursue gentleness. The idea, here, is to actually try to grow in our ability to be gentle. Gentleness is also one of the fruits of the spirit. What kind of gentleness should we pursue?
According to http://kevinmartineau.ca/our-world-needs-more-gentlenes/, the Greek definition of gentleness is "power under control." This definition does not imply that we pursue passive behavior in life. We know we are to live with zeal, perseverance and to stand firm in our faith. In humility, we understand our power comes from the Lord, but we work at controlling the power we have been given.
According to http://kevinmartineau.ca/our-world-needs-more-gentlenes/, the Greek definition of gentleness is "power under control." This definition does not imply that we pursue passive behavior in life. We know we are to live with zeal, perseverance and to stand firm in our faith. In humility, we understand our power comes from the Lord, but we work at controlling the power we have been given.
Saturday, July 23, 2011
The floating axhead
God's math is not bound to the rules of our math. God can make an iron axhead float. I love the story in 2 Kings 6:1-7. Some guys were out cutting trees down and a borrowed axhead flew into the water. Elisha did an act of faith and God honored his act and made the axhead float to the top of the water.
Sometimes when I am running, I like to focus on this story. I remember that my God is big enough to make an axhead float. If He can make an axhead float, then He can make things that I perceive as impossible... possible.
Sometimes when I am running, I like to focus on this story. I remember that my God is big enough to make an axhead float. If He can make an axhead float, then He can make things that I perceive as impossible... possible.
Friday, July 22, 2011
Don't forget to laugh!
It never fails, my son can always make me laugh. He always finds new ways to bring joy and happiness. His laugh is contagious. When he laughs his face lights up the room and brings joy to all those around. His joyful spirit reminds me of the power of laughter.
My son never seems to miss an opportunity to find joy in his circumstances. He reminds me that I often forget to laugh. His happiness teaches me how happy and joyful one can actually be. Of all the things we forget to do...we shouldn't allow ourselves to forget to laugh.
My son never seems to miss an opportunity to find joy in his circumstances. He reminds me that I often forget to laugh. His happiness teaches me how happy and joyful one can actually be. Of all the things we forget to do...we shouldn't allow ourselves to forget to laugh.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Money Money Money Money
With all this talk about keeping our jobs our mission it seems appropriate to talk about how getting paid comes into all of this. In prior entries, I commented that health care began as a free service provided as a mission by Nuns in people's homes. I also suggested that we have to be careful not to allow money to cause us to lose focus that our job is not about us, but about helping others.
Yet, I recall reading a book, Thou Shall Prosper by Rabbi Daniel Lapin a few years ago. He stated that when people are willing to pay us for something it means that we have something that is valuable to share. He suggested that too many people look at moving money from one person to the next as an evil transaction. He stated that when we are able to provide a service that others are willing to pay for, we should work to improve upon providing that service. He also stated that we should learn to love what we are good at doing if what we are good at doing is valuable to others.
Yet, I recall reading a book, Thou Shall Prosper by Rabbi Daniel Lapin a few years ago. He stated that when people are willing to pay us for something it means that we have something that is valuable to share. He suggested that too many people look at moving money from one person to the next as an evil transaction. He stated that when we are able to provide a service that others are willing to pay for, we should work to improve upon providing that service. He also stated that we should learn to love what we are good at doing if what we are good at doing is valuable to others.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
What makes a job a mission?
I have been contemplating this question now for about three weeks and have several ideas. First, I don't think "a job" is necessarily a bad idea. There is a fundamental need we all have that is to provide for our families. It is therapeutic to work and our jobs are healthy ways to grow and provide for others. When our job becomes our mission, however, I believe we work for a higher calling or for a bigger reason than just to provide for our families. This should make our days more fulfilling. Here are a few thoughts on what makes a job a mission:
1. The person working determines whether or not the job is a mission. I suppose if we interviewed missionaries some would say they have witnessed "missionaries" treat their mission like a job. In other words, just calling something a "mission" will not necessarily bring about the deeper sense of engagement or fullfillment one might expect as they pursue the goal of helping others.
2. The motivation behind the work. If our work is focused more on ourselves, our work may become mundane and we may become selfish with our behavior. When our work is focused on helping others, we may work harder to go above and beyond to assure satisfaction and that goals are met.
3. Whether or not someone is paid...actually, even "missionaries" get paid (usually) to do their "missions." I think working for money can create a tendency toward selfish behavior that we must overcome to maintain a more pure selfless frame of mind.
1. The person working determines whether or not the job is a mission. I suppose if we interviewed missionaries some would say they have witnessed "missionaries" treat their mission like a job. In other words, just calling something a "mission" will not necessarily bring about the deeper sense of engagement or fullfillment one might expect as they pursue the goal of helping others.
2. The motivation behind the work. If our work is focused more on ourselves, our work may become mundane and we may become selfish with our behavior. When our work is focused on helping others, we may work harder to go above and beyond to assure satisfaction and that goals are met.
3. Whether or not someone is paid...actually, even "missionaries" get paid (usually) to do their "missions." I think working for money can create a tendency toward selfish behavior that we must overcome to maintain a more pure selfless frame of mind.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Making our jobs our mission
is one of the best things we can do to make sure we are giving 100% to our clients every day. I learned a few years ago that health care started out as a mission field. Nuns used to care for people who were sick and hurting as a way to share God's love. This was a free service. If I ever begin to feel tired or worn down I remind myself that I am not working for myself. I am working to share God's love with others by trying to help them feel better.
Sunday, June 19, 2011
A good prayer for Dad
Today at church the pastor guided us through some prayer time. He encouraged those who had a Dad pass away to thank God for the time their Dad was with them. I miss you Dad, but I thank God for the time you were here.
Monday, June 13, 2011
I miss you Dad!
Dear Dad,
What a year! You will never believe what happened! We had a baby girl. Her name is Rachel Elizabeth. She is really pretty, is starting to have red hair and a lot of people say she looks like you. I think she is amazing. She rolled over for the first time last week and she is only (a little over) two months old. Did you and God have a talk about sending her our way because the timing of when she came along/when you moved on seems rather interesting?
Isaac is so wonderful. He is getting really big!! He continues to laugh and be very happy. He laughs so hard he sometimes falls over. One time, he laughed so hard he dislocated his elbow. It's a long story, but it had a happy ending. He likes to run with me. When I get home from work he comes up to me and moves his arm like he is running to suggest that we go for a run. We feel so fortunate to have him as our son.
A memory I will never forget is when Amanda and I were driving through the Kazakh country side (on our third trip), the sun was going down and you and I were reminiscing on our cell phones about how wonderful of a little boy he is. We were finally going to be able to bring him home and it was so nice to be able to share with you what we were seeing. What an amazing journey!
I am reading a book about how to be a better parent. One of the suggestions is to have fun with your kids. I think we have that covered. We are trying to do a lot of fun things like go to the park, ride the four wheelers/tractors, play outside, throw balls, hike on the trails around here and go camping. I am finding ourselves doing a lot of the same things you and Mom did with us growing up. We had a great childhood. We are hoping to get a boat and camper some time in the future. We might also try a few vacations somewhere warm this winter.
Amanda is a great Mommy! Just like you said, Dad, she continues to amaze me. She works very hard to help our kids grow, know they are loved and help them be as good and healthy as they can. We have a lot of fun too. We are just in a state of bliss right now. After seven years of drought, it's hard to believe we are where we are. You would be so happy to see Isaac and Rachel right now.
Mom is doing well. She is making it. She helps us a lot. She is keeping the house in order. We are trying to help out with that too. I appreciate how you always worked hard to help take care of her. Don't worry, she will be fine...and she misses you.
Toni, Scott and the girls are really making things happen! They are taking life by the horns and are going for it! They are so busy with sports and plays. The girls are very talented and loving. They love Isaac and Rachel and we get together often to play (Mom included). We have done several hikes at Beech Creek. You should see what's happening with their business. They are working hard and things are moving in the right direction.
I have had a chance to spend time with many of your brothers and sisters this past year. It's so nice to see them. Now, when I talk with them I think of you. I never realized this, but each of them have at least one or two of your characteristics. It's so funny because I kind of feel like you are here when I am with them. They are all doing well and have been very supportive.
I should probably move on here. All I can say is thanks. I keep thinking about how you always worked so hard to "make it better" for us. You always wanted to give us relationships, opportunities and things you never had growing up. You tried to make progress and help us do the same. Now, we are trying to pass that on for our kids. We will carry the torch.
Love ya Dad,
Andy
P.S. I haven't seen any coyotes while running lately.
What a year! You will never believe what happened! We had a baby girl. Her name is Rachel Elizabeth. She is really pretty, is starting to have red hair and a lot of people say she looks like you. I think she is amazing. She rolled over for the first time last week and she is only (a little over) two months old. Did you and God have a talk about sending her our way because the timing of when she came along/when you moved on seems rather interesting?
Isaac is so wonderful. He is getting really big!! He continues to laugh and be very happy. He laughs so hard he sometimes falls over. One time, he laughed so hard he dislocated his elbow. It's a long story, but it had a happy ending. He likes to run with me. When I get home from work he comes up to me and moves his arm like he is running to suggest that we go for a run. We feel so fortunate to have him as our son.
A memory I will never forget is when Amanda and I were driving through the Kazakh country side (on our third trip), the sun was going down and you and I were reminiscing on our cell phones about how wonderful of a little boy he is. We were finally going to be able to bring him home and it was so nice to be able to share with you what we were seeing. What an amazing journey!
I am reading a book about how to be a better parent. One of the suggestions is to have fun with your kids. I think we have that covered. We are trying to do a lot of fun things like go to the park, ride the four wheelers/tractors, play outside, throw balls, hike on the trails around here and go camping. I am finding ourselves doing a lot of the same things you and Mom did with us growing up. We had a great childhood. We are hoping to get a boat and camper some time in the future. We might also try a few vacations somewhere warm this winter.
Amanda is a great Mommy! Just like you said, Dad, she continues to amaze me. She works very hard to help our kids grow, know they are loved and help them be as good and healthy as they can. We have a lot of fun too. We are just in a state of bliss right now. After seven years of drought, it's hard to believe we are where we are. You would be so happy to see Isaac and Rachel right now.
Mom is doing well. She is making it. She helps us a lot. She is keeping the house in order. We are trying to help out with that too. I appreciate how you always worked hard to help take care of her. Don't worry, she will be fine...and she misses you.
Toni, Scott and the girls are really making things happen! They are taking life by the horns and are going for it! They are so busy with sports and plays. The girls are very talented and loving. They love Isaac and Rachel and we get together often to play (Mom included). We have done several hikes at Beech Creek. You should see what's happening with their business. They are working hard and things are moving in the right direction.
I have had a chance to spend time with many of your brothers and sisters this past year. It's so nice to see them. Now, when I talk with them I think of you. I never realized this, but each of them have at least one or two of your characteristics. It's so funny because I kind of feel like you are here when I am with them. They are all doing well and have been very supportive.
I should probably move on here. All I can say is thanks. I keep thinking about how you always worked so hard to "make it better" for us. You always wanted to give us relationships, opportunities and things you never had growing up. You tried to make progress and help us do the same. Now, we are trying to pass that on for our kids. We will carry the torch.
Love ya Dad,
Andy
P.S. I haven't seen any coyotes while running lately.
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Blog name change
As I grow, this blog will change. I am changing the name from "Chariots of Fire" to "Transformation." I still value the ideas behind our chariots of fire prayers: open my eyes and help me see your chariots of fire. Lord, keep me from having tunnel vision. When I see clearly, help me to have the courage to act accordingly.
Friday, June 10, 2011
I had a great spiritual workout this morning while
running. I focused on the following words individually: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness goodness, gentleness, faithfullness and self control. I thought about as many things I could think of about each individual word as possible. Once I ran out of ideas, I went on to the next word. It was a beautiful morning.
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Angry people make noise; happy people remain silent
I recall a leadership project my wife and I participated in a while back. It was challenging because it involved raising money for a non-profit organization. One of the instructions we received was to look for opportunities to celebrate. The idea was to celebrate the good times...take time to focus on things that make us happy through celebration!
Now, as I continue reading our parenting book 123 Magic for Christian Parents, the authors state, "Angry people make noise; happy people remain silent." They state our praise to our kids should out number our negative comments by a ratio of 4:1. They bring to mind the following scripture, "Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Eph 4:29 In summary, these thoughts remind me of the need to look for opportunities to celebrate the great things that are going on in the lives of my family.
The authors state that praise in front of other people and unexpected praise is most effective for building self- esteem.
Now, as I continue reading our parenting book 123 Magic for Christian Parents, the authors state, "Angry people make noise; happy people remain silent." They state our praise to our kids should out number our negative comments by a ratio of 4:1. They bring to mind the following scripture, "Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Eph 4:29 In summary, these thoughts remind me of the need to look for opportunities to celebrate the great things that are going on in the lives of my family.
The authors state that praise in front of other people and unexpected praise is most effective for building self- esteem.
Friday, May 27, 2011
"...then you will know the truth
and the truth will set you free." John 8:32. "The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable." ~Attributed to James A. Garfield
I remember having discussions, debates and arguments about "The Truth" while I was a student at Bowling Green State University. Now, I'm ready to move on.
I do believe the truth will set us free, however, I think there may be times in our lives when the truth may rock our worlds. When we seek truth in our daily lives I think we look for the following:
I remember having discussions, debates and arguments about "The Truth" while I was a student at Bowling Green State University. Now, I'm ready to move on.
I do believe the truth will set us free, however, I think there may be times in our lives when the truth may rock our worlds. When we seek truth in our daily lives I think we look for the following:
- Accurate perceptions regarding our behavior and the behavior of those around us.
- Clarity regarding exactly why we do what we do.
- Confidence in where we place our faith.
- Wisdom to allow us to speak accurately to help others.
- Understanding the context and environment involved.
- Patience to gather all the facts.
- Bravery to look in the right places and follow through with tact.
- Discipline to manage the information wisely and constructively.
- An ability to look through a lense that allows us to see our world the way it really is.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Parental Temper Tantrums
The idea behind counting 1-2-3...take 5 is that numbers only are counted. Words are not used to explain reasons for bad behavior. According to 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents, adding explanations and comments to this discipline approach can distract the child from the consequence of poor behavior. It can take a child's focus off the possibility of good behavior and put it on the prospect of an enjoyable and energetic argument.
"Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tounge of the wise brings healing." Proverbs 12:18
"Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tounge of the wise brings healing." Proverbs 12:18
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Finding the right person
at the right time can sometimes be a challenge. But, it can make a world of a difference. This impacts whether or not the job is done properly. Reaching out to others, building relationships and being willing to take emotional risks enhances our ability to connect with the right people at the right time.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Be the right person
at the right time...all the time. Our experience yesterday (Elbow dislocation then relocation at ACH) has really inspired me to continue striving to be the best person I can to help others. Being a Physical Therapist who works with people battling dizziness, I am regularly reminded of the power of people being connected with people who truly know what they are doing.
Yesterday, I experienced the value of working with excellent people personally. It makes me want to keep getting better, keep growing, keep creating, keep designing, keep thinking outside of the box and to love others.
Yesterday, I experienced the value of working with excellent people personally. It makes me want to keep getting better, keep growing, keep creating, keep designing, keep thinking outside of the box and to love others.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Specialists
Today, I was reminded of the value of seeing the right people at the right time for problems we may have. My son dislocated his elbow this afternoon. We took him to Akron Children's Hospital where he was immediately taken into a room in the ED. He then saw a great Pediatrician who relocated his elbow with minimal discomfort within seconds. There were no unnecessary tests (such as x-rays) performed. It was outstanding. We were in and then out of the ED at ACH within about 30 minutes.
Thanks to Dr. T for being so good at what you do. The popsicle and stickers you used to assure Isaac could move his right arm were the perfect finishing touch to a job well done.
Thanks to Dr. T for being so good at what you do. The popsicle and stickers you used to assure Isaac could move his right arm were the perfect finishing touch to a job well done.
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Walking to school every day
I had a client in his 80s come and see me the other day. He was frustrated that he was late because a school bus had stopped several times to pick up children who would be attending their school that was within walking distance. He stated, "When I was a kid, we walked to school every day no matter what the conditions were like outside." He said, "Of course, that was in the 1930s."
Hearing him say this made me pause and think, "Who will tell the 'I had to walk to school' stories once this generation passes?" I believe our "Greatest Generation" has a strong understanding of how good we have it these days. They know what it was like to live in times of very little and through several wars. There is something more meaningful about hearing this message straight from a person who lived in the moment than reading about it in a book. We have got to learn as much from our elders as possible before it is too late. .
Hearing him say this made me pause and think, "Who will tell the 'I had to walk to school' stories once this generation passes?" I believe our "Greatest Generation" has a strong understanding of how good we have it these days. They know what it was like to live in times of very little and through several wars. There is something more meaningful about hearing this message straight from a person who lived in the moment than reading about it in a book. We have got to learn as much from our elders as possible before it is too late. .
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Explosions, a Pig and 100 Intentional Years. Happy Birthday Art!
"HOOYAH! HOOYAH! HOOYAH! HOOYAH!" Art exclaimed while moving through a very large gathering of his family and friends signaling the beginning of a powerful and inspirational night of celebration. In response, a standing ovation offered in honor, appreciation and encouragement with countering shouts of "HOOYAH! HOOYAH! HOOYAH! HOOYAH!" rang through the air. I can't imagine a more fitting way to begin this celebration for Art, a WWII Frogman.
I attended the 100th birthday party of an amazing friend last night. It's hard to imagine living that long. Even more, it's difficult to imagine living as long as Art has successfully. Fortunately, Art's 100 years have been filled with intentional and meaningful living. Art has not just occupied each year he has been given, he has packed each year full with bravery and vigor as he has worked hard in building relationships, helping others, connecting others with one another, learning new concepts and processes and thinking and working outside of the box.
A few of the outside of the box things Art has done that were shared last night were: using explosives to remove tree roots, making a coat rack out of rebar, using rebar to guide the growth of tomato plants, raising a pet pig with his brothers and sisters, flying his friends and family in his own airplane from Stark County to Pennyslvania for an evening supper date ("not anything fancy"), using a FAX machine when they first became available, using computers when they first became available, talking on SKYPE to others at a beach at the age of 99, allowing his grand kids to shoot machine guns, and working in non-traditional ways.
I had the opportunity to speak with one of Art's engineering friends for a while at his party. His name was Jack. Jack told many stories of how Art used to get in at ground zero and help out on each project as if he were a laborer. As the president of his firm, he could have delegated the responsibility of supervision. Instead, he got right in and helped out on the job site. He told a story about how one of the products on the job site was not working properly and how Art had a new product provided on site within hours of discovering the problem. This was all arranged after discovering the problem late at night. He was very impressed with Art's long life of hard work, commitment to progress and getting things done right.
Yes, Art enjoys talking, but he also enjoys getting things done. If he sees something that needs taken care of, he takes care of it. He doesn't waste a whole lot of time contemplating whether or not he should get involved. He figures out a way to make a difference and he takes care of problems. A good example of this is how he immediately purchased a state of the art scale for his son's wrestling team when he found out they were using a bathroom scale for weigh-ins.
Many may look at growing to be 100 as a life that must have had many problems...especially in the later years. However, Art doesn't seem to have the ability to get down or depressed by the problems that come his way. Of all the time I have spent with Art over the last 10 years, he has never told me not to get old! As a Physical Therapist, I hear "Whatever you do..., don't grow old..." at least four or five times a week. Art has never said that.
There is much to say about a man who wrestled for Ohio State, was the Commanding Officer of the of the Under Water Demolition Team 17 in WWII., was the president of an engineering firm and the father and grandfather of many wonderful, bright, ingenuitive and proactive children and grandchildren. I hope to reminisce off and on about the things Art has taught me. But, after leaving the party tonight, I was just reminded of the importance of living a life on mission.
What mattered most to all the people at Art's party tonight was the way Art befriended them and helped out in one way or another. It seems Art has made a difference in people's lives by giving them books to read, buying them helpful gadgets and devices to use to make their jobs run more smoothly or more efficiently, connecting people to others who have experience, sharing some of the secrets he has learned along the way and by leading the way by not falling into the traditional patterns and ruts that come along over the process of living in our daily routines.
What a great celebration of life! HOOYAH!
I attended the 100th birthday party of an amazing friend last night. It's hard to imagine living that long. Even more, it's difficult to imagine living as long as Art has successfully. Fortunately, Art's 100 years have been filled with intentional and meaningful living. Art has not just occupied each year he has been given, he has packed each year full with bravery and vigor as he has worked hard in building relationships, helping others, connecting others with one another, learning new concepts and processes and thinking and working outside of the box.
A few of the outside of the box things Art has done that were shared last night were: using explosives to remove tree roots, making a coat rack out of rebar, using rebar to guide the growth of tomato plants, raising a pet pig with his brothers and sisters, flying his friends and family in his own airplane from Stark County to Pennyslvania for an evening supper date ("not anything fancy"), using a FAX machine when they first became available, using computers when they first became available, talking on SKYPE to others at a beach at the age of 99, allowing his grand kids to shoot machine guns, and working in non-traditional ways.
I had the opportunity to speak with one of Art's engineering friends for a while at his party. His name was Jack. Jack told many stories of how Art used to get in at ground zero and help out on each project as if he were a laborer. As the president of his firm, he could have delegated the responsibility of supervision. Instead, he got right in and helped out on the job site. He told a story about how one of the products on the job site was not working properly and how Art had a new product provided on site within hours of discovering the problem. This was all arranged after discovering the problem late at night. He was very impressed with Art's long life of hard work, commitment to progress and getting things done right.
Yes, Art enjoys talking, but he also enjoys getting things done. If he sees something that needs taken care of, he takes care of it. He doesn't waste a whole lot of time contemplating whether or not he should get involved. He figures out a way to make a difference and he takes care of problems. A good example of this is how he immediately purchased a state of the art scale for his son's wrestling team when he found out they were using a bathroom scale for weigh-ins.
Many may look at growing to be 100 as a life that must have had many problems...especially in the later years. However, Art doesn't seem to have the ability to get down or depressed by the problems that come his way. Of all the time I have spent with Art over the last 10 years, he has never told me not to get old! As a Physical Therapist, I hear "Whatever you do..., don't grow old..." at least four or five times a week. Art has never said that.
There is much to say about a man who wrestled for Ohio State, was the Commanding Officer of the of the Under Water Demolition Team 17 in WWII., was the president of an engineering firm and the father and grandfather of many wonderful, bright, ingenuitive and proactive children and grandchildren. I hope to reminisce off and on about the things Art has taught me. But, after leaving the party tonight, I was just reminded of the importance of living a life on mission.
What mattered most to all the people at Art's party tonight was the way Art befriended them and helped out in one way or another. It seems Art has made a difference in people's lives by giving them books to read, buying them helpful gadgets and devices to use to make their jobs run more smoothly or more efficiently, connecting people to others who have experience, sharing some of the secrets he has learned along the way and by leading the way by not falling into the traditional patterns and ruts that come along over the process of living in our daily routines.
What a great celebration of life! HOOYAH!
Friday, April 29, 2011
No talking! No emotion!
"If you have trouble talking too much, how do you accomplish the difficult goal of remaining calm and quiet in a discipline situation?" Great question! I am enjoying the book, 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents. Effective Discipline for Children 2-12, by Thomas Phelan and Chris Webb. They state that the more parents talk, the more frustrated their kids will tend to be and that parents should not spend a whole lot of time trying to reason with their kids during times of discipline. They state that parents are often mistaken by treating their kids like little adults. They call this the "little adult assumption."
Back to the original question...for those of us who enjoy talking, we may have a more difficult time keeping our mouths shut in times of intense emotion than someone who finds it more easy to be on the quiet side. Being an outgoing, talkative person, I have found the following verse helpful to say over and over. "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. For man's anger does not bring about the righteous life God desires." James 1:19 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs so that it may bring grace to all who here."
The authors sum it up by stating: No Talking! No Emotion!
"A full gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control." Proverbs 29:11
"When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." Proverbs 10:19
Back to the original question...for those of us who enjoy talking, we may have a more difficult time keeping our mouths shut in times of intense emotion than someone who finds it more easy to be on the quiet side. Being an outgoing, talkative person, I have found the following verse helpful to say over and over. "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. For man's anger does not bring about the righteous life God desires." James 1:19 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs so that it may bring grace to all who here."
The authors sum it up by stating: No Talking! No Emotion!
"A full gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control." Proverbs 29:11
"When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." Proverbs 10:19
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Teachable Spirit
I remember our prior pastor, John Hampton, talking about the importance of having a teachable spirit. I love learning more. Gaining new perspectives and learning new thoughts always makes me feel refreshed. I recently learned that learning new things actually stimulates our Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS). The PNS is the opposite of the Sympathetic Nervous System. The PNS helps us relax and rest while the Sympathetic Nervous System allows for fight or flight.
I am currently reading 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents. Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 and the authors recommended the following scripture:
18 Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame,
but whoever heeds correction is honored.
I am currently reading 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents. Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 and the authors recommended the following scripture:
Proverbs 13:18 (New International Version, ©2011)
18 Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame,
but whoever heeds correction is honored.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Good thinking and accurate perceptions
We have our second transformation meeting coming up. The theme is renewal. In preparation, I was looking to confirm the author of the quote that "if we think the way we want to feel we will eventually feel the way we think" and I came accrossed the following quote by John Ortberg, "Over the long haul, good thinking, accurate perceptions, healthy emotions, wholesome desires, honorable intentions- cannot produce bad results; bad thinking cannot produce good results." If You Want to Walk on Water You Have to Get Our of the Boat
Friday, April 15, 2011
I couldn't make the small dirt pile move
When I was real little (probably second or third grade), I remember hearing that all I needed was just a little faith to move mountains. So, I went outside one day and thought I would give it a shot. Except, I figured I would try it on a little pile of dirt. So I got my toy John Deere backhoe and pushed some dirt around to make a little pile. Then, I remember sitting behind the pile and praying that God would make it move. I believed he could make it move, but it never moved.
Lately, I have been working on memorizing Matthew 17:20. While I run, I like to say it over and over in my head. Sometimes, I think I get discouraged with the idea of faith moving mountains because I couldn't even move a pile of dirt...I have tried that experiment off and on through the years :).
www.biblegateway.com
Lately, I have been working on memorizing Matthew 17:20. While I run, I like to say it over and over in my head. Sometimes, I think I get discouraged with the idea of faith moving mountains because I couldn't even move a pile of dirt...I have tried that experiment off and on through the years :).
Matthew 17:20 (New International Version, ©2011)
20 He replied, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”www.biblegateway.com
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Appetite stewardship
I am listening to a Podcast right now by Andy Stanley and he is talking about how to manage spending. He states that the more aware we are of what we do not have, the more discontent we will be. He also states that the more we feed our appetite for more, the more our appetite will grow. He states the only way to make our appetites smaller is to feed them less. Sometimes, I think our appetites make us believe that if we just "eat a little more" we will be fulfilled. However, we know that is not true. The more we eat the more we want.
We have to be stewards of our appetites.
We have to be stewards of our appetites.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Inclusive mentality
Last night, when gathered around the table to eat, my two and three month old son wanted us all to hold hands in preparation for praying. His five day old sister was in her bassinet behind him. Before he would allow us to pray, he reached back so that his sister could hold hands too. It was awesome to see him do this because it shows how much he loves her, that he wants her to be included in our family prayer time and that he was aware of her presence even when sleeping behind him out of sight.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
More power!
"The spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self discipline." (2 Timothy 1:7)
To be timid means to be fearful, hesitant, lack confidence and slow in making decisions. To have self discipline means to have control of one's thoughts, feelings, emotions and actions for the purpose of making progress. To have power means we have access to God's power in our life. Power is the great or marked ability to do or act; capability of doing something or accomplishing something. It also means the possession of control. Another definition identifies power as having energy. (definitions adapted from dictionary.com)
A friend of mine recently reminded me of the statement, "I can't, but He can." When it comes to overcoming some of our old habits, behaviors and tendencies, this is another verse that reminds us that when we can't, He can. Less of us and more of Him. My first thought, when memorizing this verse, is that I need to work harder to have the spirit work through me. However, thanks to my discussion with my friend, I was reminded it's not about working harder to be more like Christ. It's about abiding in Christ. It's about staying close and building my relationship with Him. Father, help me to humble myself and allow your spirit to give me the power, love and self discipline that you promise. Thanks Jonas.
To be timid means to be fearful, hesitant, lack confidence and slow in making decisions. To have self discipline means to have control of one's thoughts, feelings, emotions and actions for the purpose of making progress. To have power means we have access to God's power in our life. Power is the great or marked ability to do or act; capability of doing something or accomplishing something. It also means the possession of control. Another definition identifies power as having energy. (definitions adapted from dictionary.com)
A friend of mine recently reminded me of the statement, "I can't, but He can." When it comes to overcoming some of our old habits, behaviors and tendencies, this is another verse that reminds us that when we can't, He can. Less of us and more of Him. My first thought, when memorizing this verse, is that I need to work harder to have the spirit work through me. However, thanks to my discussion with my friend, I was reminded it's not about working harder to be more like Christ. It's about abiding in Christ. It's about staying close and building my relationship with Him. Father, help me to humble myself and allow your spirit to give me the power, love and self discipline that you promise. Thanks Jonas.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Plans to prosper
I have been working on memorizing Jeremiah 29:11 and I love this verse. It's humbling and comforting to know that our creator has plans to prosper us and not to harm us. I often think about how great it is that our creator has chosen love over hatred toward His creation.
This verse also makes me pay attention to the thoughts I have about good things coming our way. It makes me wonder if some of the things I hope for include some of the plans the Lord has for me and my family.
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (New International Version, ©2011) (Biblegateway.com)
Saturday, March 5, 2011
"Have no fear
of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared." Prov 3:25-26
How would someone, who is me, act if they were 100% confident that God was with them? (Andy Stanley)
How would someone, who is me, act if they were 100% confident that God was with them? (Andy Stanley)
Friday, February 25, 2011
Anxiety reveals pride
I am trying to figure this out. I have never thought of being anxious as being prideful. However, the idea makes sense. If I am anxious, it's because I am worried about whether or not something is going to happen. If I allow God to be in control by humbling myself, then I would not worry. It's not about my will, it's about His.
1 Peter 5:6-7
5 In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because,
“God opposes the proud
but shows favor to the humble.”[a]
6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
(Biblegateway.com)
1 Peter 5:6-7
5 In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because,
“God opposes the proud
but shows favor to the humble.”[a]
6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
(Biblegateway.com)
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Signs of spiritual health
are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self control. (Fruits of the spirit; Gal 5:22)
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Love always trusts
I think this means that loving others means we give them the benefit of the doubt. Instead of assuming the worst or judging that someone has poor motives, we assume the best and "trust" their motives are pure. Trusting as a way to love means we believe someone will come through. They will make it. Trusting means we can rely on someone to do the right thing.
Perhaps trusting someone requires time. After all, we have all been let down, but we can't all be perfect. Trusting someone as a way to love means we keep trusting even when we are let down. We trust that they will eventually do the right thing or that they will eventually come through.
If love always trusts then we can't give up trusting even when let down.
Perhaps trusting someone requires time. After all, we have all been let down, but we can't all be perfect. Trusting someone as a way to love means we keep trusting even when we are let down. We trust that they will eventually do the right thing or that they will eventually come through.
If love always trusts then we can't give up trusting even when let down.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Love always protects
When I think of protection as a way to show love, I think of guarding my wife and son's physical safety. I think of chivalry with sword fights. Perhaps a more realistic way to protect those I love is through my speech. When I think of love that protects, I realize I should work hard to defend the honor of my loved ones through the things I do and do not say.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Slow to speak and slow to become angry...
When I focus on this scripture, I think of the importance of controlling my speech and trying to maintain an eternal perspective during times when emotions are running high. However, I recently was reminded that 90% of communication is conveyed through nonverbal means. Our body language and tone can sometimes speak louder than words.
Lately, I have been thinking that if I just keep my mouth shut and listen that I would be heading in the proper direction following this scripture. But I think another part of being slow to speak includes the nonverbal messages I may send as well.
The above referenced scripture is James 1:19
Lately, I have been thinking that if I just keep my mouth shut and listen that I would be heading in the proper direction following this scripture. But I think another part of being slow to speak includes the nonverbal messages I may send as well.
The above referenced scripture is James 1:19
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Being able to worry proves
we can meditate. I believe worry is meditation, or focused thought, on problems or bad things that could happen. Those of us who have no problem worrying can rest assured that we can meditate. The battle is choosing where we shift our focus. Worry is an intense focus on our problems. Worship is intense focus on God. Both seem to be forms of meditation.
Saturday, February 5, 2011
If we wait until we feel
like doing something we may not get much done. I believe my feelings can sometimes not be trusted. I am not sure where those feelings arise, but I have a few ideas. What matters most is that I learn to ignore certain feelings.
I once heard our past pastor, John Hampton, say something like this: "If you act the way you want to feel eventually you will feel the way you want to act." For about 5 years, I never felt like running. Many said all I had to do was run for 5 months and it would become a habit. Well, it wasn't until after 5 years that I actually began missing running when I didn't do it.
Had I listened to my feelings, I would never have become a runner. Now, if I don't run, I feel like I haven't taken a shower, brushed my teeth, eaten breakfast, etc. In other words, I feel like something is missing.
I once heard our past pastor, John Hampton, say something like this: "If you act the way you want to feel eventually you will feel the way you want to act." For about 5 years, I never felt like running. Many said all I had to do was run for 5 months and it would become a habit. Well, it wasn't until after 5 years that I actually began missing running when I didn't do it.
Had I listened to my feelings, I would never have become a runner. Now, if I don't run, I feel like I haven't taken a shower, brushed my teeth, eaten breakfast, etc. In other words, I feel like something is missing.
Friday, February 4, 2011
Acting confident even when
we don't feel confident may sometimes be necessary. Our feelings can sometimes lie to us. Confidence based upon knowledge and not feelings should provide a much more consistent basis for living.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
If progress is always preceded by change
then hopefully I will get better at corn hole. I didn't want to do it, but I changed my throwing style. Instead of throwing the bag horizontally, I changed to vertical. This was tough. I wanted to do it my way. However, my way was just not working as well as the vertical throwing style my friends at work use.
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Renewing our mind means
to take off the old and put on the new. Renewing our mind means to remove our perspective and see His perspective. It means to see as He sees. I love getting a fresh perspective. A new point of view makes it a lot easier to change. New perspectives create motivation. Seeing things the way they truly are often times creates energy. That's why this blog is called Chariots of Fire. It's about God opening our eyes to help us see where He is, what He is doing and working in our mission.
2 Kings 6:17 (New International Version, ©2010)
17 And Elisha prayed, “Open his eyes, LORD, so that he may see.” Then the LORD opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha.Thursday, January 20, 2011
An irresistible urge to act
One of my cousins emailed me today and stated she had been praying for clarity and direction. Her email reminded me of a prayer we had recently for clarity, courage and an irresistible urge to act. Thank God for answering that prayer!
Monday, January 17, 2011
By faith
I read Hebrews 11 last night and was reminded how much God loves faith. The sixth verse of the first chapter states " 6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him."
I have heard Andy Stanley ask the following question: "What would someone, who is you, do, if they were 100% confident God was with them?" Faith is such a wonderful gift. I think it takes practice to live by faith if we haven't always done so.
I have heard Andy Stanley ask the following question: "What would someone, who is you, do, if they were 100% confident God was with them?" Faith is such a wonderful gift. I think it takes practice to live by faith if we haven't always done so.
Friday, January 14, 2011
Without discomfort we can't
get stronger. The only way to build strength is to make ourselves uncomfortable. Before a mission trip to Haiti (when I was in college), our campus pastor told me, "we have to be uncomfortable with our comfortableness." That quote has stuck with me for quite some time.
As a Physical Therapist, I recognize the need for people to welcome feeling uncomfortable (pain, fatigue, burning, discomfort, dizzy) in order to make progress. Trials (events that make us uncomfortable) are opportunities to get stronger.
As a Physical Therapist, I recognize the need for people to welcome feeling uncomfortable (pain, fatigue, burning, discomfort, dizzy) in order to make progress. Trials (events that make us uncomfortable) are opportunities to get stronger.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Addicted to comfort
I just read a statement from some friends of ours at livereadynow.com. They wrote "We all like to be comfortable; in fact, pain is usually an indication that something is wrong. However, we can actually become addicted to comfort, and find ourselves unwilling to live without it.
We can easily begin to make decisions based on the comfort level involved instead of basing them on wisdom. This is dangerous!
Many times in a crisis situation the right decision is not the one that is immediately comfortable. It is a good idea to practice being uncomfortable, and not letting it bother you."
I never thought of the possibility of being addicted to comfort. I certainly believe it is possible. Of course, we know, it's not about our comfort, but our character.
We can easily begin to make decisions based on the comfort level involved instead of basing them on wisdom. This is dangerous!
Many times in a crisis situation the right decision is not the one that is immediately comfortable. It is a good idea to practice being uncomfortable, and not letting it bother you."
I never thought of the possibility of being addicted to comfort. I certainly believe it is possible. Of course, we know, it's not about our comfort, but our character.
Monday, January 10, 2011
Transformation details below:
Here are some links regarding things that happened at our latest Transformation gathering.
Jeremy's Thoughts
Don't forget to pray for the Jason and Melissa family (remember your calendars).
Jonas' Thoughts
Memory Verses (Recommendations)
Toni and Olivia singing
Looking forward to the next one!
Jeremy's Thoughts
Don't forget to pray for the Jason and Melissa family (remember your calendars).
Jonas' Thoughts
Memory Verses (Recommendations)
Toni and Olivia singing
What is the mission statement of Transformation? The Mission Statement of Transformation is to encourage one another to be transformed by the renewing of our minds through sharing with one another in prayer, scripture memorization, reading the bible, accountability, praising God, serving and giving.
What is the vision of Transformation? The vision of Transformation is that all participants will grow in their God given gifts to be confident workers in their mission fields.
What is the first goal of Transformation? The first major goal of Transformation is that all attendees, who are old enough (over 5 years old), will have five new bible verses memorized by the end of the year.
Looking forward to the next one!
Thursday, January 6, 2011
The truth is, I can't
but He can. If it's about association and not imitation, then how do we associate? I love the sound of being "transformed." In Romans, Paul states we can be transformed by the renewing of our minds. How does renewing our minds allow us to be transformed? John 8:31-32 states, ..."if you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free."
In his podcast on Character, Andy Stanley states things like attending church and prayer won't set us free. While those are helpful things to do, He states Jesus said knowing the truth will set us free. So we have to learn the truth and be able to spit it out when we are in all kinds of circumstances. Scripture memorization, I think, is a very helpful way to be able to do this.
In his podcast on Character, Andy Stanley states things like attending church and prayer won't set us free. While those are helpful things to do, He states Jesus said knowing the truth will set us free. So we have to learn the truth and be able to spit it out when we are in all kinds of circumstances. Scripture memorization, I think, is a very helpful way to be able to do this.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Just stay close!
How hard can it be? Do we really have to learn to abide? When I stop and think about it, I believe we do. I remember when we went to the Columbus Zoo this summer with a group of friends. We were with a family and their 8 year old boy with lots of excitement and energy. He was so excited that he became distracted by the attractions and was not able to stay close. He became lost. After lots of searching and contacting security, we were able to find him. Fortunately, he was ok.
Christ, being the vine, encourgaes us (the branches) to remain in Him or stay close. This has to be learned because we get distracted. We have lots of excitement and energy and sometimes get so anxious that we stray. Sometimes we think, "if I don't do something, nothing will happen." Andy Stanley refers to this belief as the "if I don't, it won't" way of thinking.
Christ, being the vine, encourgaes us (the branches) to remain in Him or stay close. This has to be learned because we get distracted. We have lots of excitement and energy and sometimes get so anxious that we stray. Sometimes we think, "if I don't do something, nothing will happen." Andy Stanley refers to this belief as the "if I don't, it won't" way of thinking.
Monday, January 3, 2011
Transformation: Is it conscious or unconscious?
I find myself asking this question about how we maintain balance walking. Is walking a conscious or unconscious activity? Is walking a reflexive event or is it controlled by our minds. We have to make the decision to walk, but once we get moving, do we consciously tell each muscle when to contract and relax to help us adjust to the changes in our environment and remain upright? I find that people with balance problems usually have a control problem. They are trying to take conscious control over a mostly unconscious (reflexive) event. Often times, they try to take too much control over their balance because they don't trust their balance system. They end up moving similar to a person who is walking on ice. Our balance is much better when it is left at the unconscious reflexive level.
Is spiritual transformation conscious or unconscious? Can we consciously will ourselves to be transformed? If Christ's character is not manufactured by us, but produced through us then it is more unconscious. Consciously, we have to learn to abide or stay close. When walking, we have to make a choice to get up and move and we also have a certain amount of conscious control over the health of our bodies, but then once we are up, most of walking is unconscious. Spiritually, we make a choice to follow Christ and to do things that help us stay close to him. Then, if we hold to the vine, then the vine will produce fruit through us. Perhaps being transformed spiritually is similar to staying upright. The more conscious control we try to take over the phenomenon, the more unnatural and messed up it will be.
Is spiritual transformation conscious or unconscious? Can we consciously will ourselves to be transformed? If Christ's character is not manufactured by us, but produced through us then it is more unconscious. Consciously, we have to learn to abide or stay close. When walking, we have to make a choice to get up and move and we also have a certain amount of conscious control over the health of our bodies, but then once we are up, most of walking is unconscious. Spiritually, we make a choice to follow Christ and to do things that help us stay close to him. Then, if we hold to the vine, then the vine will produce fruit through us. Perhaps being transformed spiritually is similar to staying upright. The more conscious control we try to take over the phenomenon, the more unnatural and messed up it will be.
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Like Christ
So if we can't be like Michael Jordan, can we really be like Christ? What about if I pray enough, read enough bible verses, serve enough and be good enough, can I be like Christ? I don't think so. I mean, I can do some of the things Christ did; like recite scripture, pray, serve and love others. But, could I ever truly become like Christ? There is something Christ has to offer that Michael Jordan can't.
Andy Stanley states, "you cannot manufacture the character of Christ because the character of Jesus Christ must come from Jesus Christ" The focus needs to shift from us trying to become like Christ to abiding in Christ. If He is the vine and we are the branches, then the branch needs to hold on and stay close. No one ever heard of the branch trying to become the vine. However, the vine nourishes the branch and the branch can produce fruit.
Andy Stanley states, "you cannot manufacture the character of Christ because the character of Jesus Christ must come from Jesus Christ" The focus needs to shift from us trying to become like Christ to abiding in Christ. If He is the vine and we are the branches, then the branch needs to hold on and stay close. No one ever heard of the branch trying to become the vine. However, the vine nourishes the branch and the branch can produce fruit.
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Like Mike
Remember the Gatorade commercial that talked about flying, moving and groving just like Michael Jordan? I remember watching that on "Channel One" in home room my freshman year in High School. It always got me pumped up. I loved it when that commercial came on. I waited for it every morning. I felt a shot of adrenaline after watching that commercial (and I was a wrestler not a basketball player). I think the idea was that if we drank Gatorade, we might somehow become like Mike. Well, no matter how hard we worked, or how many bottles of Gatorade we drank, we were not going to be like Mike. We could do some things Michael Jordan did, like; shoot a basketball, run up and down a basketball court, make jump shots, wear Air Jordan shoes and...drink Gatorade. But, we would never do these things just like Mike. Michael Jordan was blessed with genetic gifts that allowed him to do the amazing things he did.
At "The Exchanged Life" series in 2009 at First Christian Church, I heard Dr. John Geib provide the above illustration and ask the following question: what if, though, Michael Jordan could have somehow came and lived inside of us? What if he could have taken over our bodies? How would that have changed our ability to play basketball?
At "The Exchanged Life" series in 2009 at First Christian Church, I heard Dr. John Geib provide the above illustration and ask the following question: what if, though, Michael Jordan could have somehow came and lived inside of us? What if he could have taken over our bodies? How would that have changed our ability to play basketball?
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