Sharing our dreams (aspirations) at the

right time with the right people is a prudent way of living.   Sharing our dreams at the wrong time with the wrong people may put a delay in seeing our dreams come to pass. 

I can't believe all of the dysfunction from Genesis 1-37.   Joseph's brothers decided to sell Joseph to another tribe because they were jealous of Joseph.  Joseph shared a dream that he had with his brothers.  His dream was that he would rule over his brothers some day.  I think this would have been a dream that would have been better had it been kept to himself.  I can't blame Joseph.  Of all the people to share your deepest hopes, desires and visions, one would think the family would be the safest place to do so. 

Now, if Joseph had shared a dream with his brothers that involved his brothers ruling over him, I have a feeling his brothers would not have minded hearing about his dreams.   If I put myself in Joseph's shoes, here is what I would have been thinking:  "Wow, I think I just heard from God and God told me what our future would be like!  This is so exciting.  I bet my brothers are going to be happy to hear this and so happy for our family."   Perhaps my excitement about hearing from God and the future of our family may have now allowed me to consider the entire implications of this dream.  Regardless of how good it sounded for me, all my brothers are going to hear is that they will be ruled by me!

One of the best ways I have learned to relax

is by reading through the bible from beginning to end.  The only way I have been disciplined enough to stick with it is through the use of reading plans on my ipod.  In my opinion, the bible is a fascinating collection of books that allows me to better understand our Creator.  Shifting my focus from how I can better control my circumstances to how God is in control of our circumstances is very humbling and liberating.

"A man of fear lives always on the edge

of insanity.  A man of faith lives in perpetual reward," states Andy Andrews in The Travelors Gift.  As a physical therapist, I work with people who are battling one of the most terrifying events that can occur in a person's life.  This event that I am referring to leaves individuals with a feeling of helplessness and isolation.  They believe there is no hope and it causes many to be afraid to go to bed at night, walk to the restroom or go to the grocery store.  One person may have said it best, "Dizziness is the hardest thing on a persons nerves..."

I never imagined I would be a person who helps clients with dizziness.  I have learned so much by working with clients who battle this problem.  One of the biggest lessons I have learned is how important it is to not allow fear to drive or control us.  Once fear gets hold of our lives, it makes everything worse.  The crazy part about this lesson, is that if anyone has the right to be afraid, it is a person battling a vestibular disorder. 

Vestibular disorders can oftentimes be unpredictable in how they impact people's lives.  They can come on with no warning and with no pattern in intensity.  People often say, "Am I going to have to live with this the rest of my life?"  Faith that this is only a moment in their life and not their life is needed to  build hope in their future.

Anger keeps leaders

from growing.  Anger robs us of our leadership potential.  Andy Stanley has a great leadership Podcast series on "Enemies of the Heart."  He states that leaders who have internal problems eventually are held back because internal problems eventually express themselves externally.  He states the condition of our heart becomes an invisible lid to our leadership (John Maxwell's Law of the Lid).

In his podcast on anger, he states anger states "you owe me."  Anger causes us to expect pay back.  He states angry leaders fix blame on individuals rather than systems.  However, nine times out of ten a system is to blame.   Being angry puts us in "pay back mode."  Anger causes us to believe that "you took something from me." 

He states angry people have very little emotional margin and that they tend to blame people.   The way to get over anger is to release others from their debt to you.  I must decide, "you don't owe me anymore."  This does not mean they weren't wrong or that they didn't owe me.  It just means I am deciding to forgive them of the debt they owe.

Forgiveness breaks the power of anger.  Andy states, "We don't like to lose" and when we decide others don't owe us anymore, we feel we are giving something up.  Anger gives us a sense of power over others.  When we decide they don't owe us, we feel as though we are giving up power over them.   We do not like to lose and we don't like to give up power.  When we decide we are going to forgive others, we feel like we have lost.  However, in reality it is a big win as forgiveness creates emotional margin.   Thanks Andy Stanley for these thoughts!

"Life begins where your comfort zone

ends!"  My cousin just shared this statement with me on facebook and I believe it to be true.  I remember our campus minister in college sharing that we needed to be uncomfortable with our comfortableness.

I know as a physical therapist, the only way to build a muscle up is to make it do what it is not comfortable doing.  So, plow ahead!  Go against the flow!  We only live once.

The Consistency Muscle

"The signature of mediocrity, is chronic inconsistency."  Jim Collins made this comment at the recent Catalyst convention in Atlanta, Georgia.  Consistency can be difficult, but it is more difficult if we haven't worked at being consistent on a consistent basis.  In other words, I think there is a consistency muscle.  The more we work at being consistent, the more easy it is to be consistent.  As we grow, consistency in tougher situations is much more likely.

Pin your ears back

and go.  I remember my high school football coach telling me that during pre-game warm ups.  The idea was that you just go for it.  Don't hold back.  Don't let fear keep you from accomplishing what you have prepared to accomplish.  Take everything you have done to prepare over the last several months, let go, have fun and go baby! 

I think that in life we need to pin our ears back and go.  Life is too short to miss out on great experiences and opportunities because of being timid or lazy.  We gotta live while we can.